..on the 28th of July 2009 ..was
the most unfortunate day of my life when the AVANZA I was driving involved in an accident at simpang 4 kg.gunding in Taun Gusi KB. A pick up made a sudden stop in front of me to take passengers .. I was off guard and could not immeadately stop (press the brake) thus rammed into the rear side of the pick up truck. It is not the car that I worried too much but instead the 2 young female passengers that were inside the pick up. Both of them were thrown out during the impact .. one fell on the side of the road and another one in front of ...my ... Avanza!!!! she was bleeding so much on the fore head .. ( I thought she was dying!) .. and the other one lying helplessly in pain near the bus stop!!
..how do I feel on that day? ... it was like hell is getting closer to me! .. I think about the girl safety .. wheather she'll survived or not .. if not .. then my life may be at stake! .. I fear for my safety .. the folks around the area are not so friendly considering the fact that there were a few time road drivers who involved in a minor mishap were beaten to death .. so cruel! After made report to the police station I rushed to the hospital with wife, jeremy, Iyus and Jacob to see the victim ..(altough I know that this is unpopular thing to do considering the girl just had an accident and may be they still angry at me or not) ... I pull myself together to be brave to face the victim's family. Morever i have the support from my brother iyus and in laws Jacob, Tapa, Tina and most of all my wife. ... not to forget with GOD help!
I hurled my hands to them .. to say sorry for them and asked for forgiveness .. one of the brothers was not so keen .. the eldest brother seems to be quite tolerance .. (one of the victim was her daughter 17 yrs old ..SPM student) .. he broke the ice and told me what I need to do in accordance with their adat kampung. .. he asked for sogit ..in terms of money (any value) .. to be given to both victim to ease the tension ..... I later gave each one of them RM300 .. the mother asked for ayam kampung (for the purpose of returning the spirit back) ... I once again gave rm500 to each of them ( for well wish pray) .. last but not least an RM300 to buy the air ticket to Johor as she (the victim) was supposed to be there for registration day at a local semi gov nursing college.
..pheewwww!!!! what a hectic and tiring week for us!
My wife returned to Kampung last sunday and since Jeremy and Joyce's school was closed for holiday on monday, they stayed overnight. Wife took the opportunity to look at her RMT business at the school ... and it's look like Kiko is doing fine at the wok! yummy!
Kiko is cooking mee goreng .. not bad lah!
Be patience .. those thing will wait for you!
Vionette (at far back) ..Christy ( middle) .. mm..Tomboi (that's what they call her) at front!
